I’m so excited to announce this part of my journey to freezing my eggs! I’ve been wanting to do this for YEARS but never really prioritized it. Life just got in the way, you know? Then, after I was diagnosed with kidney cancer last year, I took a look at what was in my life and what I really needed in it. It wasn’t a closet full of clothes, it wasn’t a fancy car. What I really need in my life was having kids.
What I’ve wanted to do as a career, even whether or not I’ve wanted to get married – these are all parts of my life that have had varying answers but the one constant in my life, ever since I was a young adult, was that I need to have children.
Now just because I want them does not mean that I can have them right this very moment. I work for myself with unstable financial resources so, while I’m open to adopting, I don’t have a stable enough life situation in order to go through the adoption process. I’m also not currently seeing anyone seriously where it can be a viable option for me to try and get pregnant at this moment.
So what can I do when the situations in my life aren’t lining up with my need to have children?
I can freeze my eggs.
I look at freezing my eggs as essentially freezing time. So if in 5 years, I’m in a situation in life where I am with someone long term and we want to have children, I can try to get pregnant naturally of course, but I can also have my “younger” eggs that I’ve frozen at this time in my life.
Why is freezing your eggs important?
Well as we age, we have a natural decline in our eggs; therefore, our fertility.
Here’s a fact that I want everyone to absorb: We are born with as many eggs as we’ll ever have in life.
So when we’re born, we have as many as 1,000,000 eggs. Then, once we hit puberty that number can go to around 300,000 eggs. And from there, each month we gradually lose eggs. The graph below gives you a sense of how likely it is to actually get pregnant as we age.
So knowing that it’s a priority for me to have children and knowing that my place on that X-axis is inching closer and closer to the right, I needed to do something about it.
That’s why I reached out to CCRM – Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine to begin this part of my journey.
The first step that you take when going into the CCRM office in Lone Tree, Colorado, is you get a consultation with the doctor. I happen to be seeing Dr. William Schoolcraft who is actually a founder of CCRM! I’m definitely in good hands! Here, the doctor will talk to you about your options, what to expect in the process, and make sure this is the path you want to go down.
I had the option to think about it but I know this is what I want so I chose to get my ultrasound and lab work done during this same visit.
The CCRM location in Lone Tree is really large; however, the systems they’ve got in place there don’t make you feel aimless. I felt so taken care of which, for me, is so important when choosing a doctor who is going to be a part of such a personal part of my journey! Once you check in and see the doctor, you are “assigned” a nurse who will be your main point of contact. This nurse will walk you through the whole process again except in more detail. She’ll let you know exactly what is coming up for you. Plus it’s her chance to ask you some questions about your medical history, your cycle, and all of that. A medical first date to get to know some basics. 🙂
After you see the nurse, you’re then either taken to do blood work or get an ultrasound done.
There are 3 important steps to the “initial” phase:
First: Checking your AMH levels
What is AMH?
AMH stands for Anti-Mullerian hormone. It’s a hormone that is produced in the ovaries by tiny early-stage follicles as they grow to a stage where they can potentially produce eggs for ovulation. AMH levels can provide an estimate of whether or not there is still a significant number of growing follicles.
It is the most sensitive marker for ovarian reserve and does not fluctuate significantly during or between your menstrual cycle.
Second: Hormone testing for FSH, LH, E3 levels
These hormones must be timed with day 2 or day 3 of your menstrual cycle, as the levels can fluctuate between cycles. These are blood tests to check your ovarian reserve. In other words, checking your fertility level.
Third: Baseline ultrasound
The movies suggest all ultrasounds are done by putting jelly on your belly. NOPE! Not this one! Haha it’s a transvaginal ultrasound where a probe is inserted into your vagina so that the ultrasound technician can see your uterus, ovaries, and count how many follicles you have. It’s painless and over in a few minutes, so don’t worry. 🙂
Immediately after the ultrasound, you can ask the technician how many follicles were seen and if there was anything abnormal. For me, I had 17 follicles and fortunately nothing came up that was alarming. That follicle count is apparently normal for someone in their mid 30s.
So those are the first 3 steps for me! I was only able to really accomplish steps 1 and 3 on this trip and I’ll have to wait until my next cycle to do step 2 and check my other hormone levels.
Once the doctor has all of this information, he is able to provide you a protocol that is specific for you.
Here is a YouTube video that I created documenting my journey. Please watch and subscribe!
I hope this series of posts that I create around freezing your eggs is helpful to someone out there. I know I had SO many questions before starting, and I still do, so as I learn – you learn. 🙂